Barney, this is a healthy-mindset you have, you will do well. Unfortunately a lot of people are seduced by the 'quick-fixes' many PU companies who wish to sell there services promote. The truth is, there are no quick-fixes. Many people also come here with gaping wounds and hope that PU will be the 'band-aid' to heal those wounds....it won't.

I feel you understand this. Good man.