11-04-2013, 02:33 PM
Through the mindset that worked its way into my head from the interviews yesterday I finally made an approach on a group of girls (3).
It was an in-direct approach and honestly I was nervous but I just kept telling myself "if I was fine in the interview then I'll be fine approaching girls".
I just asked them where the music shop is in town. They told me of several and gave me directions. Then I asked them about their music tastes and what they think a 16 year old girl (my sister) would like.
It went well, my goal was to just talk with them and hold the conversation so I did that pritty well.
I learned that through the interviews I was better natural and off the whim so I also applied that to approaching girls.
1 thing I found hard was escalating through the in-direct approach. I didn't know what kind of path to take it on.
I guess that's a major bonus of the driect approach.
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