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Originally Posted by BlueSteal
I tend to avoid compliments as a opener (or fullstop) so I dont come across as the "nice guy". Compliments on clothes are too cliche, I'd probably compliment their vibe or energy over their clothes. Its more personal and takes the compliments away from how they look.
Just my 2 cents  |
Bro, time to learn that there's no hard and fast rules and there's no such thing as a nice guy (it's just a state of mind). For the first few months of my pickup journey I was all about following the strict mystery method rules, but you soon learn that it doesn't matter what you say as long as you have a strong frame.
Opinion openers are great, but so are functional ones as long as you have complete confidence in yourself and what you're saying. Case and point, last night I was talking to some friends in a club and these two girls were walking past us in my periphery. I jumped in front of them like a mad man and said, "Ooh you're wearing face paint! Ooh and it's purple, my favourite colour!". Because my energy was high and my frame was tight they were happy to stay there and continue talking to me. A few minutes later my mate came in with a very non-textbook introduction and took away the obstacle far sooner than would be recommended, but I was able to immediately isolate and had a really good set. Point being, fcuk what you heard, try everything!
I'm currently experimenting with direct day game. IMO one of the most powerful ways to open a woman is to tell her that you had to stop her because she's so cute. As long as you're confident and have somewhere to go with it then it's more than likely that she's going to respond really well. This method goes against everything that's been previously taught, but it works MORE effectively than spending 30 mins DHVing, negging and all that b0llocks.
Try everything 100 times before you rule it out IMO.
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Originally Posted by Summer Junky
Bustin a little poetry there on my behalf much gratitude!
I see what your saying, but I think just a vague idea of whats going on here might help me a fair bit. I'm not looking to use this stuff to open, or to be able to get into a ten minute conversation about it, I just feel very uneducated when it comes to this subject and feel that if I would probably benefit from a few pointers. |
If it's during the day:
"Excuse me, I just had to stop you to tell you I think you're so cute! You just walked past me over there and I was like "I've got to go and say hi to this girl"...
"Excuse me...I just had to say I fcuking love your boots!"
"Excuse me...I'd kick myself if I didn't say this...you have a really interesting look about you. I love it when I see someone who actually stands out for a change. What's your name?"
etc...
Only say it if you mean it though.
It doesn't always have to be a complement either; it can just be a comment about her appearance. Every time I see a hot girl in fancy dress they always get a, "Hey guys...what the fcuk are you supposed to be?"
And they love it!
