I don't know about this one it can be a bit of a tough topic, I've mentioned once or twice that I was going out 'on the pull' to a friend before after being asked what I was up to, and some people can be a bit judgmental about it often making comments about how they thought I was immature or shallow.

So it's left me a bit reluctant to state my intentions so I might just say, I'm out with a mate. I'm guessing your point was aimed more at what is said when actually out, to which I generally feel this fear of being judged badly upon continues.

Guess you could call it cowardice, I just don't want to be perceived as that pervy guy that just goes out after tail (no matter how true the statement might be).