also, this obviously depends on the girl. And your calibration to her.

I think as you get better you start noticing naturally when you can speed things up. I get the impression Mystery can't do this. So he is not good for SNLs.

Girl the other week - makeout and foreplay in the bar within 30 minutes (tried to sex it up in the gardens, but to no avail), sex 1-2 hours later. Girl this week - continual messages, meetups etc...

I have done pure nice guy game in the past. With in texts and such. But it pisses me off slightly, so have gone more direct recently.

Calibration machines baby