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Originally Posted by nova
I see where you guys are coming from, and can see the obvious flaws in romantic film behaviour. It is this sort of behaviour I am in the process of eradicating. I feel a hell of a lot less like that type of guy now and as a result I am less likely to see a girl if I don't feel I will gain sex from it... unlike before. One example would be the girl who wouldn't allow me to kiss her on the cheek. This girl I have no time for.
I feel I am more resilient and less scared to take action since seeing my first results. I just need more reference experiences to push this forward properly, and the only way to do that is to push my personal boundaries and take more risks. I am doing this, and will carry on doing this. The most important element in this is I'm actually having fun, in particular the girls serenading me!
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Good mate growth and forward movement are both great things.
Don't make the mistake of thinking its got to be a slow process though, next time you've done a fresh set see it as a fresh start stop thinking about your reference points about yourself and start thinking about her reference points about you, if you fuck up then learn from it.
I guess I'm trying to say its better to learn from fucking up the at the right stuff than slowly building upon bad foundations.
Just my thoughts, I'm often wrong.