Achieving your ultimate goal. Tony says - it's to be happy, a consistent sense of pleasure in your being.

We've all been taught what has to happen first for us to be happy but it's the emperors new clothes - it's all a lie. We've got to stop buying in to the false idea that it's something on the outside that will make us happy. Nothing on the outside will keep us happy long term. All the things you're looking for on the outside only supply temporary feelings of joy.

Unlimited sense of happiness and joy = your natural state. You only reach it though when you meet your rules - what does it take for you to be happy?