I've had dozens of missed opportunities throughout my lifetime. There were easily over 20 maybe even 30 guaranteed lays that i either failed to spot, failed to take action, didn't see the signals until later in hindsight, was too fucked up on drugs to realise it was on a plate for me, or any one of a ton of other reasons.

The number of girls i've fucked would be at least a third higher if i hadn't missed out through my own stupidity. Some of the girls i went on to fuck eventually at some stage, but most of them, & the possibilities of sex with them, vanished.

Compare your missed opportunity of at least a kiss to my two dozen thrown away lays, better?