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Originally Posted by sapphire
Touching a girls upper leg qualifies as overtly sexual by my measure of things, also to me its tacky in a sort of desperate-school-boy-on-first-date kind of way, really a million miles away from the sophisticated sexual worldly kind of vibe I go for.
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Yeah, I can see why a lot of the girls will have been turned off by my behaviour. I have obviously come across as too pushy or needy... or both! Thus, any attraction I had no matter how strong at first, drained away. Like I mentioned, I have been afraid of falling into the friends zone, as this was a huge problem for me for a long time. Perhaps i have taken it all a little too literally in communicating my intentions to the girls.