Last night I read about Japanese architecture all evening (yeah that's right I said architecture, not girls!), and tonight I have been drawing, with a view to doing some painting at the weekend. My spare time is about me now, not the girls. I feel a sense of relief!
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Calculation and outcome dependence == failure.
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Agreed. I have been putting myself under too much pressure to get results in short space of time, and in doing so failing.
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The way I see it "seduction" is all about creating opportunities rather than trying to engineer a specific outcome from a specific meeting/date/whatever.
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This resonates.
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On the specific topic of kino, personally I keep it 100% non-sexual until she crosses the line first. Letting a woman think that she is in control of the escalation (when in reality she is being ruthlessly gamed ..) is IMO absolutely golden.
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Out of interest, what kino/touching do you usually do and how far do you take it before you deem it a line to be crossed? Also why would you not cross that line into sexual territory?