It all boils down to what you want.. What is your ideal " End Game "

Ive been in the following 2 scenarios

1.) I get chatting to a girl... I get her number and arrange a meet..all I want to do is fuck her. I spend the night thinking of " Logistics " etc...very sad times

2.) I meet another girl who I genuinely enjoy talking to and spend time with. Sex doesnt even come into my head that much and doesnt bother me if we dont have it ( even tho option 2 seems to always lead to sex sooner then option 1 ?!?!?! )



So it all depends on if you are chasing an outcome, if you are and that outcome is sex then its easier to just leave her

but if you genuinely enjoy spending time with her and not too fussed about sex yet, then take it slow... your not a mug if your doing what you truly want too!

PS The most amount of dates ive been on without sex is 3, we had sex on the 4th, so as long as she doesnt bring you into the 10's..you should be fine!