Am I the only one who thinks getting with your ex is just dumb-as?

There's a reason you broke up last time. You're obviously too engrossed in all this for you to be just in it for the sex. You'll just be strung along and dumped again and it's going to hurt, again.

IF you had other girls, weren't too fussed and met up with her, chances are you'd get together. She'd then see how much cooler you are now, and she also knows about the sweet inner you. That'd be the best of both worlds for her, the 'dream', she'd be all over you.

If that happened, she'd get clingy and you'd get bored.

It's all a bit paradoxical.