Well after much tip toeing around and keeping my distance from my ex that i loved, she ended it by the way,

she got in touch with me on fb, after a very slow communication back and forth,

I would like her back but i cannot go into it head first i think i need a plan and im looking for a little advice,

So im going to text her tonight and say wed seems a good day its promising some sun, if your not busy fancy a ride out and maybe something to eat...

Im thinking along the lines of playing it cool on wed, no chatting about our past, show her my new found confidence, be funny, have plenty to talk about and demonstrate value in myself

does anyone have any good tips to use or rules to follow, it would be great to get back with her but i know when were out together i cannot be outcome dependent!!

any help greatly appreceated