Hi guys, for the last week I've been in Gibraltar and I have a few more days here. I came here earlier in the year and managed to gain the attention of a girl, who I'd been speaking to since online (and doing very well with it) while I also managed to make a lot of local male friends. So anyway, I returned (note: for a cheap chillaxin holiday - not for her) in high hopes, feeling I'd conquered this girl and I had little concern about what would come of it when I did meet her. I then made my first mistake, at her house I acted disinterested( I was knackered but this is no excuse) and the night ended with us having hardly spoke and both feeling disppointed.

I realised at this point that I did actually care about what happened with us and things got worse from this point. My problem last time was isolation, I just couldnt get her away from her friends, and the same has happened this time. So I made several attempts to isolate her, all of which have failed because either; she's not interested or she's scared. I know the latter seems unlikely but she's certainly acted in this way(see last night). Basically the only time I've spoke to her since I've been drunk and I've realised this makes my game very poor and here's why:
Very Drunk Night
I can't remember what day of the week it was but I was in a pub with my friends, having a laugh and whatever but I stopped drinking after 3 pints( to the disgust of my friends) knowing I needed to stay sober for this girl. She arrives and my friends immidiately point out how im not drinking - she then keeps buying me shots and, needless to say, my memory fades. In hindsight she could really only have one motive for getting me very drunk (unless shes evil), yet I am an idiot drunk and only succeeded in being a clown. I regained memory as I was walking her home ( Apprently we went to a club before this) and I then had a drunken conversation. Not being so sure what I've said I don't think it went too well.
Last night
I spoke to her yesterday during the day on msn, shit was going good, so much so she invited me to her house ( she was ill and had taken the day off work) so I initially refused, as I was waiting for my friend to text me back about going looking for a guitar then after about 15 mins I said I'd come over. She said she'd have a shower and get ready but then disaster! She come back 20 mins or so later saying she was gonna go to sleep cos she felt ill and so I just say the typical alright hope you feel better shit. About 5 hours later at around 9:30 I talk to her again. I find out my brother breaks his arm at home and tell her about it. I go out, a bit shaken up, then text her asking if she wants me to come over, I get no reply until an hour later saying she only just got the message and so being pretty pissed off I didnt reply.

So far my holiday has been epic fail with women, I seem to have mastered talking to guys but my confidence with women has been proper messed up. I know I should really forget this girl and move on but I really wanna see this thing out - all or nothing style. What's your advice guys?