Hi All,

Following my intro I think alot of my sticking points - fundamentally not being able to approach is down to costume/look.

So a couple questions...

1. Should your Day Game clothes be considerably more dressed down, ie. peacocking at the shopping centre I just imagine to have an adverse effect.

2. Is the general census that "its not what you wear its the skill level of your game".

3. Work restricts me on things like haircuts etc etc so I'm finding it hard to get a look that I like, I've tried shopping with women I know, I've even tried to find a Gay guy to go shopping with because of these cliched speculations that they know what to pick. Nothing really suits me, or maybe it does but I just think it doesn't - Should I just pick a celeb. with similar hairstyle / body size and match their looks?

(thorn in my side for a long while LOL)

Cheers
Ambitious