Nobody's perfect. A good partner is simply someone that's working WITH you towards shared goals...a rotten one is one that's working AGAINST you(conciously or unconciously because she believes on some level that its her 'female' perogatvie to do so), exploiting you emotionally, physically, financially (perhaps all of the above) in a desperate badly flawed bid to meet her own selfish fucked up needs. Niggles cracks and bumps on the road are one thing, a woman that holds you accountable for her own dysfunctional irrational attitudes values and behaviours is quite another...

When faced with the latter there is only one course of action...