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Originally Posted by Jamm
I am a pussy. Can't stand putting hurt on other people - girls/boys. I.e i won't insult another lad or steal his g/f and i hate breaking up with a girl especially if she's really into me. So plz guys post your advice/break up stories to make me feel a bit better about me breaking up with my g/f.
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Jamm I find the trick is to be diplomatically honest whilst remaining assertive and focussed on the outcome of your conversation (be it breaking up or resolving relationship issues)
Tell her how you feel, because if you've been feeling it for a while, she'll have definitely noticed that something was wrong. Tell her what you want and ask her how she feels, make sure she's as ok as she could be then give her some space then tell a mutual firend you think it would be a good idea if they were to check up on her.
Well that's how I break-up, I don't feel good about it though, but then again I never let a thing go that far with the girls i see to feel "bad"