Quote:
Originally Posted by Jamm
...Can't stand putting hurt on other people - girls/boys. I.e i won't insult another lad or steal his g/f and i hate breaking up with a girl especially if she's really into me. So plz guys post your advice/break up stories to make me feel a bit better about me breaking up with my g/f...
|
No decent man does. There's no shame in what you're feeling here. If it wasn't working out, there was no point in dragging it out.
It's not selfish to think of your own happiness first so long as you do it with minimum upset to others. Try to make everyone happy in life and you'll not only fail hard, but you'll keep yourself miserable doing it.
P.S - The alcohol doesn't make you depressed, but it won't help. Keep your head clear. Fuzzing your feelings with drugs only delays and prolongs the upset felt.
P.P.S - I'd never totally give up alcohol. You need to let loose now and again or the increase in stress will eat you away.