Never really have arguments, if I do something that seems to annoy, she gives the silent treatment...I bring it up and say talk to me, and it's gets resolved.
That's happened 3 times maybe

Blip- no argument, just felt she was calling all the shots, I wasn't making enough time for myself- work, hobbies etc, maybe was smothering her a little....back on track
with that I think

my post- well level as seems to be going ok, just want to get that spark back