Do you have arguments often, if so how bad are they and who makes the effort to resolve them?

You said after a 'slight blip', again was this you or her? I'm curious that you say you're fairly level again but yet you post your question on here, so perhaps not?

Don't let this get to you, every relationship goes through low periods. Often it's a case of poor communication (extremely important) or one partner smothering the other in neediness.