entercaspa, i really didnt want to reply to this as you either havent read or understood our posts.

However if you feel that you really want to get this girl you will start off on the wrong foot thinking you aren't good enough. There is no better or worse, just social perception so believe in yourself.

In fact if you want to make yourself better, go out and do things! Train in the gym or for a specific sport. Take up a salsa class or instrument. Start a new hobbie like bonsai trees, shooting, hiking, whatever.

By showing people you have a rich and interesting life/personality it will kindle interest/value or at the very least give you something to talk about.

So at the end of the day, go to a salsa class, start cycling and go out more!