If things don't work out with a girl, it wasn't meant to be, if i'm not wearing enough labels for a girl, or into bands etc. then it just wasn't meant to be
she likes her stuff, i like mine, we just have varying tastes and it's no biggy because there is somebody just around the corner who is compatable
look at it like maths, in the UK there are 65 million people, 4million of whom are female, 30% of whom are above 7/10 meaning there are over 1m datable girls, if you can't find 1 of them poke yourself in the eye!
Yes, i aggree with what you say but,
the first approach we make in our lives isnt going to be perfect and some of us arent exactly great at pua so there might be some girls in my circle that I would love to get with but im just not good enough,
maybe after like 4 attempts i could say it just wasn't meant to be but this is different
entercaspa, i really didnt want to reply to this as you either havent read or understood our posts.
However if you feel that you really want to get this girl you will start off on the wrong foot thinking you aren't good enough. There is no better or worse, just social perception so believe in yourself.
In fact if you want to make yourself better, go out and do things! Train in the gym or for a specific sport. Take up a salsa class or instrument. Start a new hobbie like bonsai trees, shooting, hiking, whatever.
By showing people you have a rich and interesting life/personality it will kindle interest/value or at the very least give you something to talk about.
So at the end of the day, go to a salsa class, start cycling and go out more!
Have you had that girl that you've liked, but know youre not good enough to game,
and you tell yourself, when i get good enough, ill do it?
Stick with it. Sooner or later you realise there is no spoon. if you know what i mean.
"The hero and the coward both feel the same thing, but the hero uses his fear, projects it onto his opponent, while the coward runs. It's the same thing, fear, it's what you do with it that matters."
Just find another girl dude.. She has made her mind up about what she thinks about you and its not worth the energy trying to change that
Yeah, if anything it'll be pretty nails to convince her you're anything other than what she has already seen, and even then she'll probably find you incongruent and think you're faking it being the 'new you'.