Blueprint. End of day one.
• Part Five, Notes:
Core confidence vs Situational confidence
• In any social interaction one person is reacting more than the other person.
• Symptoms. Their natural personality is being affected by you. The way that they feel about themselves is tied up in your responses to them. Their focus is more directed to you than other people in the room. They feel a heightened emotional response from physical contact with you. She’s analysing how she’s taking up your space and time.
• When you are having these kinds of reactions to people you are giving/handing your power away.
• Everyone wants to hang around cool, fun people, who don’t give their power away
• Denbys manager getting in with all staff put him in the hottest club and he’s out of his comfort zone. There’s one guy there who is fatter and uglier etc but owns the place because he’s just having fun he doesn’t need all the social queues.
• Core confidence – I’m going to have fun and I don’t care what you think.
• Whoever has the most people reacting to their approval and is the most indifferent about it is the most attractive person there.
• Everyone enjoys a good vibe. If you’re someone who’s having fun - that’s value. Everyone appreciates a good vibe.
• Go into any environment and be the same guy. Don’t have to go out with friends. Don’t have to rely on having anyone there, love to have people there but it’s not a necessity.
• Take people out of their environment and they’re not that guy anymore the hugely popular one etc.
• Float or sink on your own feet. Get her based on you and your personality and authenticity.
• Core confidence you’ll be sleeping with hotter fitter girls. Period.
• Develop freedom for yourself, develop authenticity.

Love

• If you want to be successful with one girl be successful with girls in general. Get out of that habit of falling in love with every girl that comes along.
• Forever. Trance love word.
• Love is a self hypnosis. It’s not caused by another person. It’s caused by you.
• As it takes hold, everything makes sense, spinning and intensifying your emotions until you are fully enraptured.
• It will take a concept of a person and it will make them into something they’re not.
• Can make them an object to you.
• Situational confidence – you lose the girl it all falls like a house of cards.
• It takes a long time to get to know someone.
• Don’t come with the empty cup – looking to be completed.
• You don’t just fall in love with any person, you get to know them.
• You have to have standards.
• Huge sticking point – everything’s going well then you start to feel the nice emotions then you become outcome dependant then you lose the girl.
• Don’t make judgements, don’t make assumptions. This girl could be seeing five different guys while she’s telling you she loves you.
• She might be a liar, she might be needy.
• Enjoyment without attachment.
• The same girl as soon as she see’s you’re attached to the outcome will transform into a different person.
• Love is something that you experience within yourself. It’s something you experience when you look at the sky, you’re talking to a friend etc.


• You have to become self fulfilled.
• Some people rely on consumerism to get that nice feeling when it’s really innate.
• Don’t go up with your half filled cup to other people
• Do what you want to do. Be the person you want to be. Don’t give a fuck what people think of you.