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Originally Posted by Tom
You could just assume she's interested anyway no matter what she does, then you won't need to look out for these and you won't be dependant on her opinion of you, you'll be like "of course she likes me i'm the coolest mutha fucker on the planet!"
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Indeed! I'm certainly not in that frame of mind by any means yet, but that is exactly the state of mind I wish to instill - i.e. not thinking!
I've spent my whole life wondering if this girl or that girl 'likes me'. It's a constant battle with your ego and any flurry of excitment/hollow confidence from recognising an IOI evaporates as you end up looking out for further validation as the doubts creep in again... and you end up at square one yet again.