Isnt that demonstrating lower value by coming up to the set direct? and showing a keen interest in them... How does that work with a 9 or 10.. since they probably get approached directly a dozen times a day?

I often opt for an indirect approach of me casually walking by and happen to need a female perspective or something in that nature; where my whole body language and mannerism shows no strong interest in the set but rather me being social and of high value and the set just happened to be in my path.

I know you have more knowledge and experience than i do so i would like your perspective to why you opted for a more direct approach as you have mentioned in your post above.

Thanks