Stop seeing everything in terms of 'wins' and 'losses'. Not every fuck is a 'win'. Life is much more complicated than that.

Last wk (post work xmas party) I fucked some crazy catholic girl from work who now won't leave me the fuck alone. That fuck wasn't a 'win' it was a 'lose'. Big time. Thinking about it makes my skin scrawl, not because she was rough (she's not) but because she's fucking mental and I think I've got a stalker on my hands now.