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Originally Posted by GenePoole
I think the reality is that you either go
- from honeymoon straight into emotional relationship or
- you are in the honeymoon phase and then it ends either because you didn't give them what they want or they are not what you want...or you did something to cause them to lose feelings and because they aren't totally emotionally invested, they then lose attraction.
- I suppose the other is that you get a fuck buddy like many on here seem to, which isn't really a honeymoon phase at all.
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I don't think you have to have/stop the honeymoon phase at all...
I you are honest with eachother about what you both need, want, value & expect then I think you both can choose whether it's worth it or whether you can fulfill eachother's needs. To do that though you need to be honest with yourself about what you really want, not just blowjobs on tap (unless that's your main requisite in a reltionship)