Have to agree with Phil on this point.Dont care about getting laid (hard as it may be!!).I tried getting em horny then leave em hanging on friday,now being begged to go round and fuck her now!! So i say thumbs up to that.
Make your target having fun with her!!! if u have fun getting laid will follow!!
Maybe make it clear your not fussed about sex with her ie im a choosy guy i dont sleep with every woman that throws themselves at me.This line seems to be working well for me at the present anyways.
Keep us posted on how it works out