This is probably a familiar feeling, on some level, for most people, at some stage of their life. So, first things first, – it doesn’t make you odd, fucked up, or make the problem terminal… you can sort it, give yourself a break.

It has been touched on by Reflex, but THIS IS NOTHING TO DO WITH HER, nothing.

Set your boundaries, make them clear, and stick to them --- what you will stand from other people goes a long way to forming your sense of self worth.

Know that you are valuable (get this proof in whatever way you see fit, sleeping around, getting new skills, having a viable plan for your own happiness…etc)

Know that anyone who transgresses your boundaries is not worth your time, make it known and cut them loose.

The more consistently you go through this process, the firmer your truths will be lodged in your head.

You are going to die! On your death bed, be proud of who you are and the relative lack of compromises you have made.