Originally Posted by al_phaD

Genepoole I've felt like you do.. with the insecurities... Some food for thought, and this is based on if you are starting a LTR:

It is okay to speak about the past. But you have to know the level of detail you want to know, and WHY you want to know it.

When speaking about "the past" with a new girl.. Some things I would want to know are:
Section A

• What sexual things she has or hasn't done, and what she would like to try
• Any bad experiences she's had
• Her thoughts on sex and relationships, its importance, her needs, things like that
• If she desires more than one man or woman, and her thoughts on its effects to the relationship
• Number of sexual partners, last STI checkup, if she is on the pill etc

Section B
I DON'T want to know explicit sexual details. This would be unhealthy, I don't need to know this.
I don't want to know about her previous partners. There is no need to compare yourself to her past people.
The main point is, she is now attracted to YOU and only you. So all you have to do is just keep a cool head, be the awesome, nonreactive boyfriend.