I 100% agree with all the comments above.years ago i was getting cheated on a lot, yeh partly because i was with the wrong kinda girl for a relationship.But it was my thinking!! I always thought they were cheating.going to cheat on me,so i smothered them.If they so much as looked at a guy in a certain way or spoke to one 2 long,or if they didnt answer my every 5 minute phone calls when they were out without me,id go apeshit ie i drove them to cheat on me.So your thinking can create your worst fears.
I found i got away from this thinking by chilling the hell out and accepting people are going to do what theyre gona do.So if someone cheats on me,theyre gone instantly!! i make that clear from the start and thats it not an issue.
Guess what?? ive never been cheated on since!!
Try accepting they have a past,but theyre knobing you not their ex now!! so dont worry about it.
Btw Scamp fucking awsome post m8