I agree with what Phil said - if you will be lusting after other women it's probably pointless!

I have found sometimes that a girls personality will push her looks up. So a 7 with an amazing personality becomes and 8! I seriously hardly ever call a girl a 10, only 9s - they become a 10 if they have an awesome personality.

I wouldn't feel shallow or beat yourself up! I'd just keep her as a good mate or friends with benefits. I need the whole package to get serious and probably so does everyone else... that's just my tuppence worth