Yeah, you see for me I couldn't do that, I just wouldn't be able to see those people as her friends...especially the fuck buddies. My insecurity in that situation would be of the "why did you let this guy use you?" Of course she could have been using him as well but then the relationship is stripped down to a purely sexual one. It's just a lot to get through so I prefer to see girls who don't have all that history. It's also why I don;t stay friends with any of my exes.

I get what you're saying about small towns and maybe that's it, I always grew up in big towns so don't find it that normal.