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Originally Posted by GenePoole
To some extent, yes. I never have insecurities about guys just hanging about a girl I'm with or like but I do have insecurities about guys hanging about who have already been with the girl. Maybe it's a personal preference but once I find out a girl has been with a guy in her social group and they still hang about as friends, I dump her immediately.
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First step is admitting insecurities so kudos
Perhaps this is a personal preference.. but I am trying to be much more open minded. I'd had sex with my exs friend before I got with her.. and she'd had sex with my friend before as well.. but you just have to get on with it and forget about it.. it doesn't really matter.. if you live in a small town, half the 18 - 24 yr old population is guna have slept together!
I'm meeting a girl who's nice possibly relationship material and she hangs with her exs and ex fuck buddys but its just life isn't it.. as long as girls are faithful you don't need the insecurity about this
Hope this helps