Have spent most of the day chilling and recovering from the mad weekend spent with GLG and JohnnyB in Lithuania. Vilnius - nice city, beautiful women.

Set out from Luton Friday morning, arrive in Vilnius and rendezvous with our link who we are renting an apartment from. The apartment is nice, some after-party potential.

GLG did some networking with various girls in the city, so we meet up with one who is from Australia but has lived in Vilnius for a year. Go for lunch in a cafe, this gives us an opportunity to check out the women. Eastern Europe rarely disappoints - there are a LOT of pretty girls, this bodes well for the weekend.

If you pressed for time, skip straight to Thoughts and Lessons. For everyone else, read on.....

Friday night
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Get our glad-rags on and hit the town, accompanied by our Australian guide who has recommended some bars. The first one we head to is dead, have a couple of drinks in there. The second one is also quiet, however we still spend a long time in here. There are 3 women - our guide, her fattie friend, and another one sitting down with a guy. We drink some home-brewed vodka brought from the back room, it tastes like petrol. I contemplate moving on the Australian (she is a 6 at best), but instead end up propositioning the fattie outside whilst she is having a cigarette. This is the low point of the evening. JohnnyB goes over to talk to the girl with the guy, turns out they are only friends but she has a boyfriend who lives in the country. The guy says 3 of his friends are arriving in the next 5-10 minutes, all girls. They take 30 minutes to get to the bar.

We then leave for another bar - at this point I am pissed (in the angry way, not the drunk way). The group sits down to order drinks, again there is no-one in the bar. WTF?! So myself, GLG and JohnnyB say our goodbyes and head to a club just down the road. The club is dead. AARGH! The night is becoming a disaster. We get a kebab. The Australian says we should head back to the first bar as it may now be busy. So we head back.....and it has turned into a full-blown club night!

This looks much better - there are more than 3 girls in the club, some hotties walking around. I spot a lone girl sitting down and sit next to her, we start talking, and that was the main interaction of the night. Claw her in, introduce myself to the friends, the friends leave her alone. We are vibing, went for makeout but no-go. Step back, chill, more convo, try again, no-go. Was with her for about an hour, GLG and JohnnyB had left to go home so call it a night.

Not much happened during the day on Saturday, so I'll skip straight to.....

Saturday night
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After Friday's farce, the 3 of us decide to dispense with our local guides and head to the club that the Australian referred to as a 'meat market', Pabla Latino.

A summary: We got in there at 1030, and didn't leave til' 5 in the morning! So this is what went down....

We get there and it is already busy, a lot of cuties and hotties. After getting drinks, all of us are immediately into sets. In the outside section I see a lone blondie (Gaby) and start chatting to her. This girl is beautiful, we are vibing, lots of physical contact. The friends arrive and I introduce myself, chat with them for a bit. She then heads off, and I head back to the bar. Chat and flirt with 2 Norwegian girls. GLG and JohnnyB are chatting to a 2-set.

The next section of the night is pretty hazy, I was just walking around opening various girls and talking to them. I then see GLG and JohnnyB on the dancefloor and join them. They are playing Latino music, we are salsa-ing. I see a tall blonde hottie in a tight red dress and start dancing with her, I've started to get a thing for tall women recently. Her ass is fine. Didn't go for the makeout though for some reason, later on I saw her in another part of the club and the attraction was gone (in reflection, I was trying to join their party ....)

Meet up with GLG and JohhnyB on the outside balcony. On the way, I see a group of 10 girls all sat down and feel the fear factor going up. Umming and arring with them, then I say fuck it, will try and last 2 minutes. Go in with 'HEY, WASSUP LADIES!' and go from there. 5 turn away, 4 are curious, 1 responds immediately with 'hey!' Start chatting to her, GLG and JohnnyB come into the group as well. 2 minute challenge complete!

GLG goes downstairs to makeout with a girl he met earlier, JohnnyB is chatting to another - good times for the London boys I then start to lose a bit of momentum, then spot a woman in trainers sitting down.

The Italian - as soon as I start talking to her, she lets loose with a stream of frustration about her night - WTF. Part of me wants to eject, however I stick in there and just listen for some reason whilst she gets things off her chest. She then says that I've had a 'good effect' on her. IOI, game on! We move to the upstairs balcony, more vibes, she then starts telling me about how she is a passionate woman that 'likes to fuck' and doesn't like guys who pussy around. There is serious tension, we are slow dancing, go for makeout, initial resistance then its on. She is a VERY good kisser, 'Little Smiley' is now wide awake. Start thinking about logistics of getting her back to the apartment. Say we should get another drink.......and this is where it all goes wrong. We get to the bar, barman refuses to serve her, she gets angry, I pay for the drinks, try to calm her down but she is now all over the place. I have the drink with her, decided to cut my losses and bid her farewell.

Chode around the club for a bit, then spot Gaby the Blondie from earlier and re-open. We go to have a dance, OMG she is hot - seriously attracted to her. This makes me afraid to go for the makeout, even though the signs and vibe is there. She then heads back to her friends, she gives me her business card before she leaves.

It's now getting towards the end of the night and there are less sets. JohnnyB is with his girl, so me and GLG decide to PLOW. This was pure jokes, just hitting up the remaining girls left. Danced with some model-looking girls in one room, again she is taller than me but HOT. Hands on the ass whilst dancing - this is fast becoming a signature move! Then head to the other room, find another 2 girls and start dancing with them. My one is cool - naturally pretty, we chat about travelling. Makeout opportunity was there, but again didn't want to fuck it up.

All 3 of us have had a good night with numbers and makeouts, and head back to the apartment.

Sunday night
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The streets are quiet tonight, hit a couple of bars but they are largely empty. In one place, the barmaids recommend a club near our apartment. We head there, and it's busy. Walking through the dancefloor, I spot Monica to my left. Take her hand, and we start dancing and chatting.

For me this was the best interaction of the whole weekend. Nice body, pretty face, great ass. Lots of vibing. Went for makeout a couple of times, got the cheek. After a while just decided to chill - the physical attraction was there, so no point in pushing it. Introduce myself to her friend, who pretty much leaves me and her to it for the rest of the night! We then go outside for some fresh air, so the 3 of us are chatting. Monica says her friend is going to work in a couple of hours, and says that she herself lives quite far out. Previously I had mentioned that the apartment was 5 minutes walk away.....logistics aren't going to be an issue this time. But we have to leave at 4am to get to the airport and it's 3:30....fuck! This isn't happening. Oh well....JohnnyB and GLG find me outside and we head back to pack.


Some thoughts

I've now been to Lithuania and Poland, and their women are so much more naturally beautiful. Even in the clubs, they tended not to wear a lot of make-up but still looked good;
The majority I talked to were super-friendly, intelligent, and humourous. And the friends tended to just leave you alone when you were talking to them....this doesn't happen very much in London so any thoughts on this are welcome.

The lessons

1) Physicality is starting to become more natural. And speaks volumes.

2) Don't be intimidated by beauty. This happened a couple of times, and links to....

3) Not being afraid to lose the girl. Better to try and fail, than to not try and regret.

4) Staying in interactions for much longer - this is something I'm really beginning to enjoy. Rather than bouncing around from set to set, I'm starting to get much better quality interactions and vibing.

5) Focusing on the process - this relates to (4). Rather than thinking 'I need to get laid', my focus is now on enjoying the conversation and building a vibe. I've found this has naturally led on to other things, and this approach is really helping me.

6) Starting to find a natural rhythm. I now realise that I have a better experience when I start off slowly and build momentum on a night out. Before I used to enter the bar/club and be like 'WOOOO! YEEEEAH! LET'S GO' and bounce around from set to set, but now I'm just a bit more chilled. Don't get me wrong - I still have times where I'm raring to go from the start, but my state now feels more authentic and in tune to what I actually feel.

Back to the grind, so no outings for a bit - stay tuned folks