This is turning into another Routine v Natural debate! If routine helps people develop themselves as a more rounded person, thus giving them a more naturally confident persona, that has to be a positive thing surely.

If the girls can't handle this that's their problem, and shows they have ego issues if they feel the need to flag this up in conversation and make a big deal out of it. At the end of the day they should be happy all us boys, who do not forget are in this together, are making an concerted effort to improve not just our own lives, but theirs.