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Originally Posted by Lovefish
I sat on the bed thinking she would just cuddle up or sumat.But she sat at the bottom and i was like oh shit what do i do now:S i should of used a comment like do i smell or sumat just to get her to move up a bit.By the time id figured out i needed to do something it was way 2 late  Absolutely need to be building comfort earlier and more of it.So that when the bedroom is reached she will be less resistant and ill be more confident.
Out of interest as i know little to nothing of kino.Can anyone link me to a helpful thread on here that will give me some good advice on escalating its definately something that could i could improve on.Its good to know that im not the only one to get that far and blow it lol |
I wouldn't use the line "do I smell or sumat" personally.. I can't explain why.. it just doesn't sound enticing or playful really.. I guess you don't need to say anything.. just grab her and start kissing her, if she pushes you away, then she's a freak for taking you back to her bedroom and not even doing anything.. Just assume its on, don't let any doubt cloud your mind.. if you're in her bedroom.. its on!
I don't use any other PUAForums, and can't remember seeing much on this one about it, but after a quick google search, read these two pages:
Kino Escalation – Early, Mid Set Kino and Kiss Closing
Kino Escalation Model
I can kinda see your viewpoint on this, you'd had a nice day, you go back to hers, you're new to being single, and assume she's guna start cuddlin up and kissin and shit.. some girls just aren't very forward and you have to lead it..
Some girls, especially the slutty ones, would be all over you in the doorway and like to take control