I used to get a lot of LMR and did the whole freeze out thing to try and compensate, but to be honest it's not really that fun. Feels really mechanical. Kiss, undress, play, back off, kiss more, undress more, more play, back off, wash, rinse repeat etc etc. Now I think I would just say fine and go to sleep if this happened.

I do still get LMR, but am so unphased by it I always manage to get round it pretty easy without this freezing out stuff. I find the freeze out thing is very needy as you keep going back for more after rejection. (LMR used to be a big probem for me btw).

Realise this isn't really what you were getting at Evolver, went off on a tangent. Maybe should have posted in LMR thread. You are right about not getting all caught up with the sex in your head straight away when you are in the room.