I would say if you're in her room, it's already happening!

Lovefish, I would say flirt and do it like Al_phaD said with, Kino Kino Kino! There really is no substitute for it. If you both were on either ends of the bed then there was not Kino and things start to cool off.

It's happened to me loadsa times and it still does because I get distracted by pets, books and/or jokes. Dont take it to heart and don't take it to seriously - make the move because if you do you will be high-fiving everyone on the train home. If she blows you out you have a funny as fuck Field Report to write!