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Originally Posted by al_phaD
So if a girl wants a ONS or fuck buddy, she is not decent, and is on the loose side.
But for men who come on a PUA Forum, many in the search for more lays (admittedly, not all), it is perfectly acceptable?
Women have needs as well. If a girl is single, does this mean she is not entitled to sex unless she marries the guy?
How is being in an honest, open, fuck buddy relationship misleading the girl? When you explicitely tell her that you do not want marriage or a relationship right now, and she is fine with it and still wants to have sex with you (yes it happens), this is NOT MISLEADING |
There is nothing productive in having a fuck buddy, it's just a waste of time even if you are getting some action along the way...no emotional connection nada.
People come on here searching for more lays but in the process, don't you think there is a hint of misleading in the process? Many women date in order to find someone decent and if all you're looking for is a
ONS then that's misleading the girl for the gratification of your own ego. I agree with you that if you explicitly say then it's not misleading (aside from the fact that PUAs know that saying that makes them want you more 9 times out of 10) but when do 2 parties actual say this to each other during the attraction phase? Normally this is something you might discuss after and if you say you don't want anything serious then it often leads to a break up of that connection.