Jay's got the general idea of what I'm on about.

I mean, it's pretty much doctrine not to take any shit from girls, we're all walking that path (occasionally I fall off I must admit!). But what if it's just conditioning driving her, not intent?

Mate of mine is an epic natural. He's a "trust fund" type, lazy, scruffy, but basically a good bloke. But there is no "us and them" mentality to him...girls play up and it's like he doesn't even notice it. Somehow this raises him and her up into some kind of "bullshit free zone" and girls fall for him right before my eyes, fast.

PS