I can never be arsed to read Jays replies in there entirety so I may repeat what he’s said.

Just go out and talk to girls man stop fucking about!!! Trying to analyse it wiil get you nowhere believe me. If you start talking to girls with the sole purpose of fucking them you will get blown out a lot and if you keep doing it eventually it won’t bother you.

Fuck the psychology, it’s a fear and an irrational fear at that, your are only born with two fears and this is not one of the them, so get over it by doing it not talking about it.