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Originally Posted by aofelix
show intent.
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this is a true statement in general, but this guy is at an earlier phase of development: maintaining a conversation with a girl (while not dreaming up 2D diagrams of the participants' positions in the interaction using circles and grids). So he is at an early beginner stage.
In light of that I think he should initially focus on natural easy conversation with girls.
PUA stuff of intent, isolate, escalate, close etc can come in the future when he has developed into a more chilled guy.
A brief Google search yielded this for him to read:
Conversation Skills / Tips: How To Have A Good Conversation
How To Be Genuinely Interested In People e.g. he could have used the "show interest / enthusiasm" approach within some follow-up comment on school reunions