yea but thats the thing, this is a MASSSIVE psychology thing... its like the plegde of allegiance... it isnt there just to say it, its coz it re enforces belief.

as much as it would be lovely to think SHE WOULDNT DO THAT TO ME, sometimes things happen, so wouldnt you just for the sake of it, rather have it said out loud, so you both know where the lay lies...

look i know this probably doesnt need sayin but.

as wer together, i promise to protect & be loyal you and in return you stay loyal and respectfull to me.. do we have a deal.

if you make this deal, it would be MUCH harder for her to contemplate cheating as she would be going against her own words that she said out loud.

nobody has to listen, but id prefer to re iterate it and have a bond than just hope for the best.