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Default 04-06-2011, 10:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Tw1sted View Post
Here's why I'm fundementally against this sort of service:

For me, PUA is about building my confidence and social skills to the highest level. It's about personal development.

Dating sites simply hook people up, who get drunk, have sex and part company. Not only does this fail to advance you as a person, I believe it may actually distort peoples perception of dating and their beliefs.
Its just an alternative way of making initial contact, from "day 2" onwards its no different.

And ... are you seriously trying to tell me that a girl is less at risk from meeting wierdos when drunk in a club than on the internet ?? - a stranger is a stranger no matter how first contact occurs.

Its all about using online dating in the right way. You effectively get to practice all of the post-approach stuff before your approach skills are fully developed. That way you can actually end up approaching with the confidence that, should the approach go well, your not going to flounder after that.
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