hahaha this is brilliant how long this has gone on for. Phil, I guess we see things differently on this I agree with the general point being made though: its a lot more complicated than being hot or feeling hot - the variety of girls and their reasons prove that.
Oh and if money's being forked out, would you mind tossing some this way too? I'll agree with everything you say if you give me 5 quid. That's what money's there for, right? The leveler when opinions differ..