I think you should look good - for yourself. not for women

Ugly men with great personalities can pull. I've seen it.
Fit healthy men with shit personalities can pull. I've also seen that.

Which can pull more? Well I guess it depends on the girl.. As has been mentioned in this forum, it then becomes just a numbers game I guess.

I've never had trouble pulling women because of my looks. I'm not the best looking, but I do get female attention. I have noticed I get lots more attention when I'm feeling good about my looks. I think my friendly, outgoing nature has helped me previously, because I've not got an uber fit body, nor have I ever shown one off. An interesting point is, I was quite shy as well, I wouldn't approach girls, I'd always meet friends of friends and call/text/IM but hey, it got me laid enough.

Now I settled down with a girlfriend, and I'm making changes to my looks, for my own reasons, because of what Legend said in his other post about where his gut stuck out beyond his chest. Thats the point where I say, FUCK IT, I'm sick of this and am going to do something about it.

Not really sure what the point of this post is I've forgotten now