I really can't believe either that this concept is still being argued, now to the point of 9 pages!!!!

I completely agree with Phil, but I haven't thanked him at all because I believe it's such an obvious statement:

Yes!
Being an interesting/funny/confident/socially awesome person will make you attractive to girls.

Yes!
Being in good shape, looking after your health, and taking pride in your appearance will make you attractive to girls.

But yes, yes, yes, yes, YES!
If you are all of the above.

I can't see how this can be argued... but I'm sure I'll be proved wrong.

Much love,

Craigus