because you always bring the don't fuck girls with boyfriends thing into it. the quote was.

"He who is self-righteous is not
respected"

and if you haven't noticed you are losing respect from the forum members. I'm not saying this as a personal attack. people hate being judged. As the saying goes.

"A man convinced against his will is of the same opinion still"

as far as I'm concerned phil was manipulated and she voided her blame by telling him when he was already in her web.