I think you lot from the moralistic argument side have forgotten that phil decided to fuck her and she told him in the cab. Now forgive me if I'm wrong but that means that to change his original decision would be very difficult because once a decision is made the brain avoids changing that decision to save energy and time. hence why even when shown proof of being wrong peeps remain in cults.

It's kind of funny cos it seems me and jay are like exact opposites. I became less moralistic and judgemental over time and he's became more.